Support and Acknowledgement

I have been making jewelry for nearly two decades now.  First as beader and slowly transitioning to a silversmith. 

My husband has always been supportive but not necessarily aware of all the processes. He frequently gifts me with tools and equipment - if I pick out specifically what I want/need. My mother always bragged to the aunts. 

My Dad and brother each gave me a small tool years ago - unfortunately, for a variety of reasons, they were not applicable to making jewelry.  

Otherwise, the remaining three sisters and the various spouses have not shown much interest in what I do other than the casual “how’s business.”  As far as I know, none my family follows my business on Facebook or Instagram. (Youngest sister did start following me last week.)  Over the years, none of my family, except my husband and Mom, came to a show.  Well, the middle sister did but only because she drove Mom. 

So, I was so surprised and so very happy when this past Christmas my brother gave me a small (11 pound) anvil.  It is great. Perfect size for my studio.  It was not expensive, but it is just what I needed. I have a couple of steel blocks, but I have a real anvil now!  I feel so professional. 

I didn’t realize how much family validation meant to me until this gift.  It was such a large feeling – almost overwhelming at that moment.  From some physiological depth, his gift made me feel like a legitimate artist.

My SIL (brother’s wife) has asked I get with her about placing my jewelry in her boutique.  I always felt it was a “because you are family” thing and haven’t pursued it.  However, this year she asked that instead of me buying her a present, I make her a piece of jewelry.  So I did.  She again asked about putting my work in her store. I plan to meet with her this month to see if we are a fit. 

Even though I am of an age considered “old,” and no matter how much self-confidence I possess, I am taken aback by the pure joy and pride I feel when someone I love approves of, and even encourages, my work.